Ah... yes, things like that tend to stay with you. I think maybe that is part of the appeal? I might not have any particular interest in being pretend-scolded if I wasn't intimately familiar with the real thing.
But I agree: actually being caught isn't enjoyable, but the idea of maybe being caught is exciting.
And, if you get pretend caught, then pretend scolding can result. 😏
[Wait... He was going to think of an example, but maybe a woman whose people have historically been subjugated would not find the concept of harsh discipline from a sexual partner especially enticing...]
It's fine if you're not interested in that kind of thing. I just find it exciting.
is strange to never? husband is always saying nice things sometimes treating a little rough but happens with mating and breeding season… and always treat nice after
[but if… she is going to talk about it… without pretending to be anonymous…]
someone tell me once i should try tie back hoof to front hoof so does not kick partner if they is you know under tail
sound is exciting but idea of doing a little scary…
[It's actually not all that strange to have never been scolded in a sexy way if you're a respectable, god-honouring married woman. But she was the one who brought up sexy scolding in the first place!]
Scolding is a little bit similar to being restrained. Or it can be, in my opinion. Because you could let someone tie your limbs to prevent you from doing some certain action, which could be frightening as you mentioned. Or they could leave you untied and free to act, but with the knowledge that you'll be scolded if you misbehave.
Though, I don't imagine being kicked during sex would be very exciting.
But at least in my experience, part of the enjoyment is feeling more free to act out, because that's part of the scenario. Either the restraints will prevent you from succeeding, or you'll be chastised for your transgression.
But if neither of those scenarios sound appealing, then perhaps it isn't for you.
[look she doesn’t know what’s normal??? cause she really thought she did… and then she checked the network in Lunatia and Sumarlok and… started thinking maybe every other “normal” person but her is getting up to way kinkier things than she thought…]
no every time i kick i feel so sorry…
[wait how many times?]
i think i am now confused what is sexy scolding… is saying mean thing to? or giving order and play punish if break? seems different…
[Oh no, Konoha... how often has this been an issue...]
I suppose a scolding could be mean if that's what was agreed upon. It certainly doesn't have to be. It could also be more gentle, like teasing.
The point is really to be tailored toward the preferences of the participants, yes? But in my personal experience, some sort of punishment is usually involved as well. First the reprimand, then the penance.
[Yeah please don't do that to Liem. His bones would snap like toothpicks.]
Those are all good examples, yes. There was a video up on the network a couple weeks ago that explained this sort of thing much better than I could, though.
[He's not saying he watched that video... but he definitely watched the video.]
[a video… ? the only thing she can remember is maybe the one with the ropes… ? but she’d stopped watching almost the second it became clear that it was going to show that. video is too real to not be super embarrassing and also. being tied up…]
i do not know? maybe? is feeling like small pain is possible but also lewd response thing…
[but his attempt to refer her? to the video reminds her… and shortly after the last text-]
i apologize. is asking LIEM lewd question because is opposite thing from sad feelings but is maybe rude to LIEM i stop now. can read book or do other thing.
[there’s another gap in messages as she debated whether he’s not just being nice to her or not but… it’s text she can’t tell so she just has to trust it.]
is not LIEM ‘s lack that is sure.
tail is you know if someone pull on to be mean or child do because oh! horse! then is not sexual can hurt or pull hair but if done in lewd situation is like small pain but more exciting dominant! feeling?
So, like having someone pull your hair? I can see how that would be.
[His hair is just about long enough to be good for gripping, at least on top, so...]
I feel like a lot of things could be in that category. I certainly wouldn't like someone to bite me with no warning, but during intimacy, it definitely feels different.
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But I agree: actually being caught isn't enjoyable, but the idea of maybe being caught is exciting.
And, if you get pretend caught, then pretend scolding can result. 😏
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yes just idea
hum
LIEM likes scolding more than praising?
equal amount?
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It's difficult to judge. It depends on my mood more than anything.
Do you not like it?
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lewd scolding style?
no one scold me like that before
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[Wait... He was going to think of an example, but maybe a woman whose people have historically been subjugated would not find the concept of harsh discipline from a sexual partner especially enticing...]
It's fine if you're not interested in that kind of thing. I just find it exciting.
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husband is always saying nice things
sometimes treating a little rough but
happens with mating and breeding season…
and always treat nice after
[but if… she is going to talk about it… without pretending to be anonymous…]
someone tell me once
i should try tie
back hoof to front hoof
so does not kick partner if they is
you know
under tail
sound is exciting but
idea of doing a little scary…
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Scolding is a little bit similar to being restrained. Or it can be, in my opinion. Because you could let someone tie your limbs to prevent you from doing some certain action, which could be frightening as you mentioned. Or they could leave you untied and free to act, but with the knowledge that you'll be scolded if you misbehave.
Though, I don't imagine being kicked during sex would be very exciting.
But at least in my experience, part of the enjoyment is feeling more free to act out, because that's part of the scenario. Either the restraints will prevent you from succeeding, or you'll be chastised for your transgression.
But if neither of those scenarios sound appealing, then perhaps it isn't for you.
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no
every time i kick
i feel so sorry…
[wait how many times?]
i think i am now confused what is sexy scolding…
is saying mean thing to?
or giving order and play punish if break?
seems different…
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I suppose a scolding could be mean if that's what was agreed upon. It certainly doesn't have to be. It could also be more gentle, like teasing.
The point is really to be tailored toward the preferences of the participants, yes? But in my personal experience, some sort of punishment is usually involved as well. First the reprimand, then the penance.
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teasing is nice
i do like this one...
[which... might be a bit obvious after that night of heat, but. wait, was that a punishment? ... no, probably not.]
lewd punishment?
make do something?
or tell can not do something?
pull on tail?
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Those are all good examples, yes. There was a video up on the network a couple weeks ago that explained this sort of thing much better than I could, though.
[He's not saying he watched that video... but he definitely watched the video.]
Is tail-pulling a punishment?
1/2
i do not know?
maybe?
is feeling like small pain is possible but also lewd response thing…
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i apologize.
is asking LIEM lewd question because
is opposite thing from sad feelings
but is maybe rude to LIEM
i stop now.
can read book or do other thing.
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I was just curious because I don't usually have a tail. I'm certainly not used to anyone tugging on it.
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is not LIEM ‘s lack
that is sure.
tail is
you know
if someone pull on to be mean
or child do because oh! horse!
then is not sexual
can hurt or pull hair
but if done in lewd situation
is like small pain but more exciting
dominant!
feeling?
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[His hair is just about long enough to be good for gripping, at least on top, so...]
I feel like a lot of things could be in that category. I certainly wouldn't like someone to bite me with no warning, but during intimacy, it definitely feels different.
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possible more so because
what is under tail…
[location, location, location…]
yes biting is much much much good example
because then sometime have to wear scarf next day
and is
TITILLATING
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[His poor delicate half-vampire skin...]
I have on occasion had cause to be glad that my usual attire back home includes a high collar.
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LIEM ‘s skin is delicate
more than i ‘s
mine
is
nice
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I'm glad I didn't have anywhere to be the day after our meeting in the groves. I would unquestionably have needed a scarf.
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reminder of kiss
and feeling good together
claim slowly goes away
so if should go away, can go away
if want to remake… can remake
so yes
i like
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[Not that he actually has anyone who would want to make some kind of longterm claim on him, but it's nice for a day or two.]
But your skin is much lovelier than mine, Konoha.
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in i’s world is not so lovely
dark color is meaning common for human
because field work
i like LIEM’s
because feels nice and cool when i is hot
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[Not to be weird, but he does kind of envy people who can have tans and rosy complexions.]
And how convenient that your skin feels so nice and warm when I'm chilled through.
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is honest work
and i never feel so unfortunate about look
but is flattered
thank you
we can be making up for other lack
i is willing to trade if is LIEM’s company coming with
of course
on day which is not burden to job
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